I was reminded recently how this holiday means different things to different people. I teach people how to shop within the framework of a budget and a gift plan. I teach them how to plan menus and throw a fabulous party. When it comes to my own life, I must say I have something of a 'been there, done that' attitude. I don't want to crawl around a crowded mall, drive the freeways with thousands of my fellow drivers or cook a big meal. I did all of those things for years and I have to say it all brought me great joy. But now I'm content to help others and concentrate on the Spiritual aspects of this beautiful season.
I have friends who are in the same boat with me. One told me recently that she had everything she needed. In lieu of another gift, she wanted 'an experience.' We grabbed another friend and went to the theater! I like to meet friends throughout the year in different places to spend a few quiet days catching up on our lives. Instead of gifts in boxes we get memories for a lifetime.
But I am not holding one type of experience above another. It's more of a cautionary tale: if we are the same at 50 as we were at 20 something is missing ... like growth! What concerns me is how rocking the holiday boat causes some family and friends to become quite upset. It's as if we're saying we reject them personally. Somewhere between what we need to do to honor friends and family and what we wish to do to preserve our own sanity lies the perfect holiday. Have you found yours? Did your new tradition meet with opposition? I'd love to hear your story!
May you have a holiday experience you will long hold in your heart as one of the more 'perfect' experiences of your lifetime!
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