As this holiday approaches I'm always mystified by our outward focus as a society. We concentrate on what we can do or pretend to be in order to attract the so called love of our lives. Watch TV for an evening and you will discover that the right shampoo, automobile or detergent is the secret elixir of love. But if we are hollow inside what are we offering and who will we attract? It would be exhausting and near impossible to play act for an entire lifetime, don't you agree?
Getting organized isn't a task for a few afternoons a year. For me it's a life skill and part and parcel of who I am as a human being. Have you been to the movies lately or watched a new television program? A set designer has worked with the director and the writer to create a physical setting that tells the audience a lot about the character(s) without a single word being spoken. What does this mean to you?
Take a walk around the block and come back and see what your environment is saying about you. It may be time to get organized this holiday so that the message you are broadcasting is one of high self-esteem and healthy self-love. If your relationship is in the early stages wouldn't that be a wonderful message to broadcast and receive? In One Year to an Organized Life I've got a bevy of projects for you to choose from and an entire month devoted to the bedroom. I hope yours is a true sanctuary.
And if you're part of an old married couple see what you can do to the environment to spiff it up. Personally I think that new sheets are a lot sexier than a garment meant to seduce that will be off my body in minutes. In the same vein stacks of books around a bed aren't very inviting. Why not invest in an inexpensive bookcase and give those treasured friends a proper home. What obstacles to intimacy do you find in your bedroom when you look with 'fresh eyes?'
Let me know if you tackled any projects in your home in honor of St. Valentine.
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- I will always be grateful I grew up in Brooklyn, New York. It was a rich atmosphere that introduced me to different races, creeds and professions. It seemed that anything was possible if you were willing to work hard to achieve your goals.I'm a yogi which means that my spiritual path is that of yoga principles that have been handed down for over 5000 years. Yoga is an ancient philosophy based on the Gita, the sutras of Patanjali and yes, the Bible. The postures are a key element as is meditation. We honor all paths.I got my first dog when I was 6 years old after a full year of begging. She was a collie and her name was Queenie. As an adult I've had 2 golden retrievers. A female named Miss Katie who came into my life when she was 3 months old and an ancient male golden who came to me when he was 15. I'd like to have a Great Dane next but we'll see what the universe has in store.I've been organizing clients for over 24 years and writing about it for over ten.